Create Resilience Model is the process and the means for creating resilience and it consists of the following seven steps: Assess, Nurture, Accept, Practice, Notice, Empower and Act (ANAPNEA). ANAPNEA is truly a fitting acronym for this model as it defines “the recovery or restoration of one’s breath after a period of halted respiration”. Halted, diminished or impaired respiration is precisely what occurs when one’s life is disrupted – we experience an absence of normal breath and/or life (i.e. a stifling, smothering or drowning of life).
These steps flows logically, designed to build on each other to construct the optimal process for creating resilience and a return to normal life breath. The steps may be acted on individually or in any sequence however, all of the steps should be considered and employed to build, strengthen and augment one’s resilience life skills.
Determine where you are experiencing stress and trauma and/or how loss has impacted you? Emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually? It is important to understand where you need to focus your awareness, your effort and your action to create resilience. Be aware of the strengths in your values, skills and interests to recognize and assess opportunities for change as you move through the ‘Create Resilience’ process. READ MORE
Learn to love yourself first. Treat yourself as you would a loved one or close friend e.g. trust, congratulate and encourage yourself. Treat your body as your temple; it is your best and only unconditional friend in life. Apply all the positive ‘self-‘ experiences: self-acceptance, self-care, self-help, self-assurance, self-esteem, self-regulate, etc. You are creating the energy necessary to embrace change and be more resilient. Cultivate relationships for they are the only thing that truly matters in life. READ MORE
Acceptance is the first step in true healing. Foster the courage to look reality in the eye with humility, and the wisdom to discard that which no longer serves you. Nature is the ultimate teacher of both acceptance and resilience with its constant dance of persistent renewal. READ MORE
Practice the powerful healing emotions of compassion, forgiveness, gratitude and realistic optimism. These are the portals that will open us to a life filled with achievable opportunities, positive relationships and love. Resilience is less about our innate qualities and more about how we think about ourselves and interpret the world around us. You are in charge of how you think and how you feel – choose positive thoughts and emotions, choose happiness. READ MORE
Embrace every experience as an opportunity to grow, learn from every loss to transform and uncover a healthier version of you. Reframe every loss experience by challenging your beliefs and using your strengths to change and reverse the wounds of loss. Believe in yourself. Desire, hope and dream to uncover your potential. READ MORE
Liberate yourself from being the victim; misfortune is not your fault, it is inevitable for everyone. It is life, and we are all in this together – to learn. Confront your fears as opportunities to grow stronger and claim your life. Foster the mental strength to never give up at living your passion, and to think in a new way. Be persistent with self-motivation to instill the courage, strength and drive to take the next steps. READ MORE
Make realistic plans where you are capable of taking the steps to see them through. Be committed to living a resilient life by integrating these seven resiliency components into your daily life. Most importantly, take action, even if it is just to take the next small step. READ MORE
“There’s a way of breathing that’s a shame and suffocation. And there is another way of expiring, a love-breath that lets you open infinitely.” - Rumi